Yikes, NO, no, no. Have you ever received a note like
that? I have! What do you say to these guys? Not much!
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Calling Men - the Complete Guide to Calling and
Emailing the Men You Date!
www.callingmen.com
Highly Recommended: The Woman Men Adore
and Never Want to Leave by Bob Grant LPC.
www.thewomanmenadore.com
P.S. Here is a true story from a woman who applied "The
Woman
Men Adore" to her life.
"Mimi, I have been reading your emails for weeks. I
immediately ordered Bob Grant's book yesterday and did not
put it down.
"I cried. This was the missing link I needed. Why
couldn't I have the relationships that other women were
enjoying? Everything seems right on paper for me... and I'm
pretty cute! The missing piece of the puzzle is
vulnurability and the courage to speak from my heart. Let me
tell you how the last 24 hours have changed for me.
a) I decided I'd wear heels and a skirt today; I wanted
to embrace my feminine side. I do walk and act differently
when dressed like a lady! The heads were definitely turning.
b) I decided to wear makeup and smile more! This makes
all the difference in the world in turning heads.
c) I went out to lunch with a male friend of mine who
sort of likes me but also keeps his distance probably
because I act so hard or guarded. But today, over lunch, he
made a comment of me being jealous about a mutual friend's
relationship.
"Instead of just burying how that hurt me, and shutting
down... instead of being snippy, and short with him to
punish him for saying that... I did something different.
I spoke from my heart.
"I lowered my eyes, and in a soft, slow voice I said,
'You know, that really hurt my feelings. I'm not jealous of
her relationship. That's not something I would be upset
about.'
"And do you know he immediately apologized, got a little
tongue-tied even, and then put his arms around me to give me
a hug!
"And I INSTANTLY felt better, whereas before, I would
have been angry and not spoken to him for the rest of the
day. Before, I would have just harbored resentment and
built up an emotional wall.
"So then it all clicked: If you want men to embrace you,
treat you like a woman, get the love you want so much, have
the courage to speak from your heart. Tell them when you're
hurting in a slow soft voice.
"It makes all the difference in the world, and ultimately
draws them near to you. LITERALLY he rushed to grab me! And
I felt so much happier and closer to him.
"The missing piece that Bob Grant gives made me cry when
I read it. It is sure to affect other women the same way."
-- "Jennifer"
The book she is talking about is
by counselor Bob Grant, and it is titled "The Woman Men
Adore...And Never Want To Leave."
www.thewomanmenadore.com
From a reader:
Dear Mimi, Thank you so much for the mails. I love my book
"The
Women Adore." I was divorced many years ago. I see where I
made
so many mistakes. I am so happy to have the book. I feel
that the
book was talking about me. I saw myself in nearly every
situation.
It has helped me already to not make another mistake when I
met
this man that I am very much interested in. It helped me not
to
send a wrong message. I am so happy. Everything went so very
well.
I give all the credit to the book. Thank you so much. Please
keep
the mails coming. -- "Bess"
She's talking about
www.thewomanmenadore.com by Bob Grant LPC
I tell readers that if you are not reading The Woman Men
Adore and
putting it into practice, your relationship will be inferior
to
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Part 2 from a reader named "L" whose guy started out
their relationship by going on about his failures with
women!
