A very effective way to get or regain a man's interest is to
show him the "social proof" that you are a desirable woman.
"Social proof" has been around since men and women started chasing each
other. It's more than jealousy - it's a way of presenting and packaging
yourself to show - or to make it appear - that others find you attractive.
It's just human nature to find someone more appealing if when we see proof
that other people think they're something special!
Your man needs to see you being pursued by other men, or at least highly
likely to be pursued by other men, even if you are "his." He needs to see
you as fun, friendly, and carefree.
Men like their choices of women to be
validated in their minds. With a gorgeous woman, that is validation enough,
because that is a language all men understand - so one form of social proof
is to make yourself as attractive as possible. Men know automatically
that an attractive woman will be pursued by other men.
One way to reinforce "social proof" is to use photos on Facebook or in your
online dating profiles which show you with other people in a happy social
situation. Keep such photos in your home and office, too.
Once he has seen the "proof," it is much easier to keep or regain your man's
interest.
Your life should be rich, happy, and full - of people and interests. If
you're too focused on what one particular man thinks of you, then start
focusing instead on outside interests. Build yourself an interesting,
rewarding life!
That is the way to be an interesting person whom others
want to be around - including men.
When your life IS rich, happy, and full, you will automatically exude the
confidence that is an integral part of attracting men.
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of "Calling Men - the complete guide to calling and emailing the man
in your life!"
www.CallingMen.com
Using
"Social Proof" to Get Noticed by Men
