Arguing With Men: The Hidden Secret
When is the last time you had an argument with a man? How can you break this cycle of conflict? It's hard to know where to turn with this sometimes.
EXCERPT from the book How Do I Get Him Back?
How Do I Get Him Back
From Bob Grant, LPC, Author and Therapist:
"Avoid arguing. When I mention this, many women misinterpret what I am saying and assume I mean avoiding
conflict. That is absolutely the wrong thing to do.
"Conflict and arguing are two different things. A conflict is having a disagreement with someone, and arguing is a form of resolving a disagreement. It is, therefore, possible to have a conflict with someone and not argue, but it is impossible to argue with a man and not have it lead to conflict. You never want to combine the two.
"Men can handle conflict, but they rarely do well with arguing."
Bob goes on to discuss what all arguments have in common, and how you can break free of the trap of arguing with your man. Arguing makes us farther apart, not closer together! Bob provides the breakthrough information on how to endure conflict, yet not argue - and still not give up your need to be heard and understood.
This book is not for everyone - only for the truly open-minded person who wants to improve her relationship with her man. What's in this book will change that relationship for the better - if you take the information and use what applies to your situation. You can also use the information to avoid getting into serious problems in the first place.
Thanks to Bob Grant for sharing with us part of his book "How to Get Your Man Back" - you can find out more about what is in the book here:
www.bringyourloveback.com
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Man Mistake Eraser
www.ManMistakeEraser.com
How to Regain a Man's Interest
From a reader:
Hi Mimi,P.S. Also in my mailbox recently:
Just to say thank you for all your help. I recently came out of another bruising short term relationship. At which point I started receiving your emails. I recognise myself in most of your articles.
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Kindest thanks,
H.
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