Using Social Proof In Your Romantic Relationships
A very effective way to get or regain a man's
interest is to show him the "social proof" that you are a desirable woman.
"Social proof" has been around since men and women started chasing each
other. It's more than jealousy - it's a way of presenting and packaging yourself
to show - or to make it appear - that others find you attractive.
It's just human nature to find someone more appealing if when we see
proof that other people think they're something special!
Your man needs
to see you being pursued by other men, or at least highly likely to be pursued
by other men, even if you are "his." He needs to see you as fun, friendly, and
carefree.
Men like their choices of women to be validated in their minds.
With a gorgeous woman, that is validation enough, because that is a language all
men understand - so one form of social proof is to make yourself as attractive
as possible. Men know automatically that an attractive woman will be
pursued by other men.
One way to reinforce "social proof" is to use
photos on Facebook or in your online dating profiles which show you with other
people in a happy social situation. Keep such photos in your home and office,
too.
Once he has seen the "proof," it is much easier to keep or regain
your man's interest.
Your life should be rich, happy, and full - of
people and interests. If you're too focused on what one particular man thinks of
you, then start focusing instead on outside interests. Build yourself an
interesting, rewarding life!
That is the way to be an interesting person whom others
want to be around - including men.
When your life IS rich, happy, and
full, you will automatically exude the confidence that is an integral part
of attracting men.
With love,
Mimi Tanner