The Overwhelming Desire To Be Helpful

Mimi Tanner Excerpt from Bob Grant's book "How Do I Get Him Back" !

Author Bob Grant says that women want to

Create beauty
Take pain away

Excerpted from "How To Get Him Back:"

"When a woman feels bonded to a man, she has a natural desire to please him and make his life more wonderful. She may offer to help him dress better or perhaps clean up after him at his house. She is merely trying to add color, style, and more ambiance to his life.

"If he is in pain or distress, it is just natural for her to want to ease his pain through whatever means she can. She delights in seeing him released from his pain.

"All her intuition is focused on 'What can I do to be helpful to him?'"

From the HIGHLY RECOMMENDED: How To Get Your Man Back by Bob Grant, LPC!

Hello Mimi,

I just recently ended an on-again, off-again relationship with a man I truly care about. Bob's book helped me to listen to my heart and understand that what I want is different than what HE wants! I want a true relationship, not just see him once or twice a month. It's true that women need to listen to what men are saying, and not assume we can change the things we don't want to hear!

I've moved on, I'm happy, and I have my power back!!

I'll have to read your book about calling. That's one thing this man DIDN'T do!! Red flag!!

K.

Hi Mimi...

Not sure if you'll get an opportunity to read this and certainly no need to reply. I have purchased (and read) Bob Grant's Women Men Adore and it brought more insight than countless hours of psychotherapy. In fact, I just started dating a wonderful man and I'm going to re-read it to make sure I don't fall back into my old ways. It's amazing to me how a little vulnerability will change the dynamics of a relationships. I must say I feel a lot more feminine and attractive by being myself and dropping the "I can handle anything" armour.

Thank you... your work is important and highly insightful. I enjoy receiving your emails and the flirting classes. For those who respond but you are unable to touch, send them white and pink light. Your loving thoughts will make it their way and it will help you release your attachment.

All the best for a great, relaxing weekend.
H.

P.S. Thank you personally to H. for offering to help me with my emails, too. Thanks to everyone who writes in; I so appreciate hearing how these books have helped you!

With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Calling Men - the Complete Guide to Calling and Emailing the Men You Date! www.callingmen.com

Mimi Tanner is simply one of the best when it comes to writing to women on the art of finding and keeping a great man. She has become well-known on a global scale in a relatively short time. Why? Because she covers highly in-demand subjects with a flair and disarming friendliness that is unequalled.

Her book "Calling Men" is truly a magnum opus when it comes to dealing with one of the most frustrating problems women face in the dating world: How to handle calling, emailing and text messaging men.

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